How to lock down your Facebook account.

15 11 2009

A friend of mine and colleague from McAfee’s Consumer Advisory Board (Linda Criddle – www.look-both-ways.org) posted this link on “How to lock down your Facebook account”.  For all of you out there who think your account is set to “Private”, which really means “limit access”, you should take a look.  This is good for both students and parents to learn how you can make your Facebook account more secure.  Most people don’t realize that once you set up your account, you still need to go back into your settings and tweak the settings so that information does not go out to people you don’t want to be reading or seeing on your site.  A great resource that everyone should follow: www.howtogeek.com/howto/5032/how-to-lock-down-your-facebook-account/

Ofc. Steve DeWarns

www.internetchildsafety.net





School District sued over discipline for MySpace Pictures

6 11 2009

Teens Sue School for Pictures Posted on MySpace: In an AP report out this week, two sophomore girls from Indiana have sued their school district after they were punished for posting sexually suggestive photos on MySpace during their summer vacation. The lawsuit filed last week on behalf of the girls, argues that Churubusco High School violated the girls’ free speech rights when it banned them from extracurricular activities for a joke that didn’t involve the school. They say the district humiliated the girls by requiring them to apologize to an all-male coaches’ board and undergo counseling.

In a time where students and teachers are finding themselves the victims of Cyber Bullying, schools are setting policies to deter from such behavior. The question remains at what point does the school district have legal standing on something that happens in Cyberspace? Most school policies have included language to include Cyber Bullying or activities posted online, whether on or off campus, which would disrupt the school process. This means if an incident occurs online while the student was at home and that incident then becomes a problem for the student while at school and becomes disruptive in class or while on campus, the schools can now take action with either suspension or expulsion.

Last year Governor Schwarzenegger signed Assembly Bill 86 which gave schools in California the right to suspend or expel students for any form of bullying. The Bill states that schools can take action, even if the incident occurs off campus. The school has to show that the incident became a problem while on campus by being a disruption at school.

I do not know all the facts involved in this case but do feel that based on this article, the school may have overreacted. As mentioned by the students attorney there were no indications that this ever had an impact at school as these were images taken and posted during summer vacation and that the students had their accounts set to limit access to only their friends. It is unclear how the information/images got out, but it is not hard to believe such a thing would happen and had made its way to the school officials. Don’t get me wrong, I do believe that if such an incident happens in cyberspace which then becomes a problem at school and a teacher is unable to conduct their class, then the school should have some recourse to take action. I also believe that depending on what the images were, the students may be facing some criminal action themselves if they had posted child pornography. What the bigger issue here falls back to the parents. Parents need to be aware of the type of technology they are handing over to children with laptops and web enable cell phones/camera phones. We need to take our basic parenting skills and apply them to cyberspace. Children will make mistakes but we need to start educating them early about cyber etiquette. We teach our children how to behave in the real world; we need to start having discussions with them about the same behavior applying to cyberspace. I find through my teachings that students are clueless about the impact of such behavior online and what it could mean to them as they get older. How you portray yourself in cyberspace may affect future college applications and employment opportunities, but tell that to a child now and what you get are a blank look and a shrug of the shoulders.

Many times in my career as a police officer I have gotten parents calling me upset over what they saw posted online by a fellow classmate. School officials also have told me they too get several calls regarding inappropriate posting online by their students and in every case the parents ask: “what are you (police/school) doing about it?” Making more laws and more rules are not the answer. We need to enforce the laws and rules we have now, but let’s take a closer look from within the home and try to work together so that more kids don’t behave this way. My fear in the Indiana case is that this sparks the wrong message and that more lawsuits will be filed and yet children still will not learn to think before they post.

Ofc. Steve DeWarns

www.internetchildsafety.net





Teens and Drinking Posted on Social Networking Sites

31 10 2009

In a recent article in US News titled: Teens Think Drinking on MySpace, Facebook Is Real, about half of teenagers’ social media posts refer to drinking, sex, or violence, according to Megan Moreno, an assistant professor of pediatrics at the University of Wisconsin-Madison.  Moreno states that children who post pictures or has discussions online about risky behavior such as underage drinking or sex, are more likely to believe what they see and read, which may lead to risky behavior themselves. http://health.usnews.com/blogs/on-parenting/2009/10/30/teens-think-drinking-on-myspace-facebook-is-real.html

 

I have been teaching Internet Safety for over 10 years to both students and parents and I am always amazed at how many of my students will raise their hands when asked:  “how many of you have heard students at your school say; “I’ve got 100 friends on my Facebook/MySpace account….Oh yeah….well I have 200 or 300”.  This just goes to show you that Social Network sites like these play into the all too familiar “Popularity Contest” that students have with one another in school.  It was not surprising for me to read that children believe what they see and read through Social Networking and it is no surprise that they will behave like that of their friends just to get attention.  It does not mean that all will engage in these activities but it sure does show a risky pattern that if parents are not aware, could lead to something more.  Social Networking has allowed for students to come out of their “shell” and for the shy student it could be a good thing for them, but if they portray themselves to be something that they are not and only to get the attention of others, they may be heading in the wrong direction.  We all want our “Fifteen minutes of fames” and with the Internet, this can be obtained either on Social Networking sites such as Facebook or MySpace and or videos posted on YouTube.  Children like logging into their sites to see how many hits they get of if a silly video has gone “viral”, which brings upon more satisfaction to being popular.  Let’s face it, we all want to be popular and have some type of celebrity status, but at what lengths are you willing to go to get it?  If parents are not aware of their children’s behavior online, they may be missing out on some very important life lessons they can be teaching to their children.  How children portray themselves in Cyber Space may not be so flattering and someday may come back to haunt them.

 

Ofc. Steve DeWarns

www.internetchildsafety.net







Cyber Bullies targeting teachers:

29 10 2009

Cyber Bullies are no doubt making lives more difficult for students, but what about teachers?  Technology only continues to advance and the cyber bullies only gain more ways to cause trouble for the intended victim(s).  Teachers are reporting more and more disturbances in the classroom where they are unable to teach the days lesson plan due to stopping to address the lingering troubles caused by last nights online events.  Now, according to a report out today, school cyber bullies are targeting teachers too.  Cyber Bullies armed with camera phones and taking pictures of teachers and posting them on the web with unflattering comments and or edited artwork to make the picture to appear as something more than it was.  This affect has a negative impact for not only the intended victim (teacher) but could affect their career as well.  What legal standing does a teacher have to defend such post to the web?  Time will tell as this seems to be yet another area of web we couldn’t have seen coming.  What has happened to school policy on “no phones on campus?”  I know I have heard it before; schools can’t police every child who brings in a phone, but is this just a cop out?  Do schools have the right to have students place their cell phones into a locker at the front of the class until the end of school?  I know that cell phone companies and software companies have offered up ways in which parents can have a child’s cell phone turn off at the start of school and not be back online until after school.  So parents, what are you going to do about it?

School ‘cyber bullies’ making Edinburgh teachers’ lives a misery

http://news.scotsman.com/scotland/School-39cyber-bullies39-making-Edinburgh.5777329.jp

Ofc. Steve DeWarns

www.internetchildsafety.net







Hello world!

29 10 2009

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